Men in the Bible: Cain and the First Misery Cain replied to the Lord, “My punishment is too great for me to bear! You have banished me from the land…
Men in the Bible: Cain and the First Misery
Cain replied to the Lord, “My punishment is too great for me to bear! You have banished me from the land and from your presence; you have made me a homeless wanderer. Anyone who finds me will kill me!” – Genesis 4:13-14 (New Living Translation)
We are still studying the man, Cain. Today, we will explore him from another unpleasant angle of being the first man in recorded history to be plagued with misery.
While this may not be such a big deal in itself, since we are all probably familiar with the story, the essence of today’s note is to help us to appreciate some of the consequences that our actions, good or bad, may attract, even when we do not really think about them. This was probably the case with Cain too, as he might not have guessed what the repercussions of killing his brother might be. After all, there was no precedence for him to learn from, which could have helped him reign in his violent impulse.
There is an African saying, “someone who does what no one else has done before will certainly experience an effect no one else has experienced.” This was the case with Cain as he soon found out when God decided to punish him for his offence. If Adam and Eve had seen the worst hand of God as the punishment for their own disobedience in eating the forbidden fruit, Cain had it much worse than his parents with this weighty pronouncement of God:
And He said, “What have you done? The voice of your brother’s blood cries out to Me from the ground. So now you are cursed from the earth, which has opened its mouth to receive your brother’s blood from your hand. When you till the ground, it shall no longer yield its strength to you. A fugitive and a vagabond you shall be on the earth.” – Genesis 4:10-12
While Adam had the ground cursed for his sake, in the case of Cain he was outrightly cursed from the earth with the implication that he would be forever unproductive, as the earth would not yield its goods to him. This is a terrible sentence indeed, as it meant that Cain was condemned to a life of unfruitfulness. There is no work, no business, no trade, no endeavor that he would do that would give him a satisfactory yield.
Moreover, Cain was also condemned to a life of fugitive and vagabond. The Oxford Dictionary defines a fugitive as “a person who has escaped from a place or is in hiding, especially to avoid arrest or persecution,” and a vagabond as “a person who wanders from place to place without a home or job.” These are no desirable statuses for anyone. However, they were the lot of Cain as the divine sentence for the heinous crime he committed in taking the life of his innocent brother.
He was condemned to running from place to place with no settled abode to call his own. He would run from humans, animals. elements, and everything else. Even when those were not really chasing him, his guilty consciousness would not allow him to think so, as he would only see threats to his life and safety around everyone and everything he was around. What a miserable way to live indeed.
Sin has consequences that are usually unfavorable.
Men in the Bible: Cain’s Emotional Flaws That Led to Fratricide
Now Cain talked with Abel his brother; and it came to pass, when they were in the field, that Cain rose up against Abel his brother and killed him. – Genesis 4:8
We are continuing our spotlight on Cain, the first murderer and fratricide in the Bible, by exploring the inner constitution of his mind, which led him to commit murder, something that no one before him had done.
He was an angry man
By allowing negative emotions to fester in his mind and not nipping them when they started, Cain inadvertently allowed his disappointment to boil into anger. By also not exercising control over his anger, it continued to surge to the point of consuming violence that could only be gratified by hurting someone.
It is noteworthy that God warned him about the consequences of allowing his negative emotion to fester.
God spoke to Cain: “Why this tantrum? Why the sulking? If you do well, won’t you be accepted? And if you don’t do well, sin is lying in wait for you, ready to pounce; it’s out to get you, you’ve got to master it.” – Genesis 4:6-7 (The Message)
This shows that God clearly warned Cain about the implications of not putting a grip on his emotions. But he did not heed the warning, either because he did not understand what God was saying, or he was past caring. He allowed the anger to get the better of him until it pushed him to kill his brother.
He was a sad man
Another attribute Cain can be described with was sadness. He was a sad man. He did not handle the rejection he suffered well. He became jealous of his brother whose offering was accepted, and jealousy does not elicit a positive response, it usually leads to sadness and wrong behaviors. That was what we eventually saw from Cain, who made an undesirable name for himself by being the first person to be documented for murder and fratricide.
It all started with a lack of emotional intelligence, exemplified in a lack of self-awareness as to know what was good for God, and this leading to feelings of disappointment, anger and sadness, which, when still left unchecked, drove him to murder.
Understanding God: God of Product Recall and Fresh Beginnings Then the Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts…
Understanding God: God of Product Recall and Fresh Beginnings
Then the Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. And the Lord was sorry that He had made man on the earth, and He was grieved in His heart. So the Lord said, “I will destroy man whom I have created from the face of the earth, both man and beast, creeping thing and birds of the air, for I am sorry that I have made them.” – Genesis 6:5-7
Another lesson we can learn from God is that He was not afraid to admit a defect in His work and institute a product recall. Also, He was not afraid to take a drastic measure to correct the defects in His work and then start again afresh. He is a God of fresh beginnings.
From the Bible passage above, we see how God expressed regret for the unending but ever-increasing wickedness of humankind, a development which brought Him untold sorrow.
At this point, humans had mixed freely with aliens and the fallen angels. Therefore, they had morphed into a new breed of sorts, a rather horrible species comprising two fallen entities, the fallen heavenlies and the fallen earthlings in concert. In other words, the worst of the heavens had mingled with the worst of the earth, and they were reproducing on a large scale, widening the circle of wickedness. Thus, a defect was introduced in the original innocent creation that God made.
Even though God was longsuffering and endured the endless wickedness with the hope that humanity would turn around, there appeared to be no prospect of that happening, as they only kept getting worse, as seen below:
The earth also was corrupt before God, and the earth was filled with violence. So God looked upon the earth, and indeed it was corrupt; for all flesh had corrupted their way on the earth. And God said to Noah, “The end of all flesh has come before Me, for the earth is filled with violence through them; and behold, I will destroy them with the earth. – Genesis 6:11-13
At this point, God had had enough and was ready to clear out the defective creatures He had on hand.
It takes a lot of courage to admit that one has made a mistake, particularly with a project or product in which one has invested a lot of resources. And you can imagine how vested God was in humans whose models He fashioned out of Himself and painstakingly formed in His own similitude and likeness.
However, the human race at that time, having mixed with aliens and fallen angels, had become corrupted and drastically different from the original creature that God made. So that meant there was a necessity for a product recall and the need to start afresh all over again. Thus, God ‘destroyed all living things which were on the face of the ground: both man and cattle, creeping thing and bird of the air. They were destroyed from the earth’ (Genesis 7:23).
As easy as this may sound, it was a lot then, as it is in our days.
Understanding God: He Does Not Hold Grudges Forever And the Lord said, “My Spirit shall not strive[a] with man forever, for he is indeed flesh.” – Genesis 6:3 Another attribute…
Understanding God: He Does Not Hold Grudges Forever
And the Lord said, “My Spirit shall not strive[a] with man forever, for he is indeed flesh.” – Genesis 6:3
Another attribute of God which we shall meditate on today is His disposition to unpleasantness. God has very high standards for living and conduct, something which humans generally are not able to keep up with and thus always fall short of His standards. Yet, He does not strive with humankind or hold grudges against anyone forever.
This can be seen in the Bible passage above. It is worth noting that God made this statement at a time when humans had multiplied greatly and had even mixed with the fallen angels, otherwise called the sons of God. Therefore, humanity did not only increase in number, but they also increased exponentially in vices and sins as well, much to the endless vexation of God.
However, seeing that humans will continue to grow in population, and their atrocities would grow in proportion to their number, God came to terms with the fact that vexing with human foibles was not worth it, as that would mean that He would be in a frustration mode every second of the day. Therefore, He resolved to adopt a change in attitude in His perception and dealings with humans.
Up till this time, there was nothing like mercy in the dynamics of God and humans or even in the interpersonal relationships of humans with one another. However, with His declaration, God set the process of forgiveness in motion and activated code mercy, as that was the only way He could continue to bear the excesses of humankind.
Meanwhile, before that was to start, something must be done. There had to be a cleansing of the old and corrupt crop in order to have a new breed with which the new order would begin.
Another lesson we can learn from God is His disposition to a balancing act. He is not a God of extremes. Even though some who profess to follow Him go to extremes in His name or make extreme claims on His behalf, extreme is not a label that one can pin on God. He balances the acts.
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Another lesson we can learn from the personality of God is that sentiments do not move Him. Therefore, He cannot be deceived into making a wrong judgment or call, as humans tend to do.
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He is a Creator. This is not to be interpreted loosely, particularly in the light of our contemporary use of the word. God is the ultimate Creator, as He created all things, even the ends of the earth (Isaiah 40:28).
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